12 Signs your partner is crazy in love with YOU.

1. They share their food.

Joey, the character in “Friends”, a 90’s TV show, never shared his food. Even if the girl was someone he loved and went on a date. Actually, he even did just the opposite. He would not miss the chance to share the girl’s portion with her once she went to the ladies’ area.

It seems that there are many people who dislike it when someone takes a bite of food from them, even if they don’t ask. Many men don’t like the idea of their partner sharing their food with them. You should see your partner enjoying their food and offering to share it with you .

2. They leave messages for you to speak.

The majority of our communication with other people today is done online. It’s an option for those who don’t have the time to be together, but still want to keep in touch.

However, words written on a computer screen do not convey the same meaning. They don’t have the warmth or intonation they were meant to. They’re not always personal. Voice messages, on contrary, can be very personal. Voice communications are not touching.

The next time you listen to the voice messages your partner sends you, remember that they put in a lot of effort and time, sometimes even finding a quiet space, because they love you.

3. They don’t pay attention to their phones.

Phones are often guarded by people like vultures. They employ all possible protections like fingerprints and passwords to ensure that their smartphones and tablets are always protected. If this happens at home, it may be accompanied by your partner. This might make your partner think you are being too protective. This usually means the person is hiding something, and it can ruin a relationship that relies on trust.

There is no reason to expect your partner to give you all passwords on all social media profiles. Everyone has a right not to be identified. But if the person behaves naturally with you and shows sincerity in their intentions.

4. They are always open to new experiences.

Both people bring their personal preferences and dislikes to a meeting. It’s harder to say “yes” when we are older, especially when it concerns hobbies and other ways to pass time.

Your partner will try to get involved in your extracurricular activities if they are truly interested in you. Engaging in one hobby and sharing it with the other, such as horse riding lessons or cooking courses, strengthens the relationship between you. There are always more opportunities to spend time together than just being apart. It is important to appreciate the desire of the other person to spend as many hours with you as possible in these hectic work times.

While we don’t expect men to help you with makeup or hold your screwdriver when you’re working on the car in the garage at the shop, it would be a good idea to find something for both of them.

5. They leave lovely notes and surprise presents all around.

Details are what make the difference, and true feelings are no different. You don’t need to make extravagant gestures for large anniversaries or celebrations. Many of us aren’t afraid to give gifts and not bail out on big occasions. The simple acts of kindness are what add value and lighten up your day.

You could hide small “I Love You!” cards in your coat, write funny messages on a bathroom mirror, or leave your last piece of favorite chocolate. The possibilities are endless. This is the main meaning of these things — “I value you and I want to let you know about it every day.” This is an amazing sign!

6. They adapt to new ways of living.

We know that bad habits can lead to bad outcomes. We also know that people should not expect others to change their personality to keep a good relationship. Relationships involve two people being authentically themselves, but also trying to be the best version possible for each other.

Let’s imagine you live in an apartment with one bedroom. He’s an early bird so he used the TV to keep him awake at night. You might ask him to shift his bedtime a little so that you can have cuddling time and sleep well together. If so, you are blessed.

Imagine him as a true bookworm. You probably had lipstick and earrings all over your house in your single life. Would you consider organizing your house and putting things in the right place? If you answered yes, then he is very lucky. That is what we mean.

7. They’ll be there for your every need, even the worst.

This is between them. Both of us have “things” that we try to understand and accept from the other sex.

That would be shopping for men. Most men don’t want to go shopping with their women. You will find your man to be open to spending money and time on accessories and clothing. He can be involved in the process of choosing and fitting and giving his advice and opinion (carefully considered, though).

For girls, it could be any sporting event. It can either be live or broadcasted live on the TV their second half is watching. While life can be put on hold during championships or other important games, you can still get involved. Ask him why he likes the game so much and what it is about. It is a sign of genuine interest that he wants to participate in his entertainment.

8. They want to hear and speak, not just silence.

Everybody dreams of the one person they can be silent with. It’s about not being forced to keep silent because you have nothing to share and struggle to find a topic. It’s all about that beautiful silence when you are surrounded by calm, clear things and feel safe and secure.

But, in times of turmoil, it’s important to have a meaningful conversation with your partner if you are facing a problem or need to share information. A person who is truly concerned about your relationship and harmony will choose honesty and dialog over suppressing discussions . Your journey will be smoother if you learn how to have a productive conversation about issues. Understanding is also key to love.

9. They are proud to be there for you.

If you and your partner are on unstable ground or wish to have a secret relationship, it is okay to keep things private. When it’s been quite some time since your first date and one of you is still being shy about your love, this is not cool.

It is encouraging to see that your partner feels proud of being with. They want to introduce to you friends, family, or colleagues . They talk a lot of you, value your small steps, and celebrate your big successes. They will change their social networking relationship status, be more than happy to take photos of you, and they will never stop holding your hands when you meet someone. What’s not to love about being together?

10. They will not turn away from your when you are in greatest need.

Life isn’t all about sunshine and rainbows. There are many ugly moments in life. Anybody can become ill, and it is usually not expected. Even if you ignore the negative consequences of getting ill, is a great opportunity to discover your true self with

Your partner might be easily scared off by you not so beautiful appearance, your weakness, your newly discovered neediness, your high temperature, or weak. “A good source of Vitamin C!”) if they run around buying oranges. It’s changing the temperature (“It is going down, hurray!”). Binge-watching your favorite series with someone you love (“Oh, it’s not again…Ah!OK, let’s do that”)? You have found the right one.

11. They will listen to what you have to say.

This one is hard. The first is that women seek a man who is strong and can make decisions. And the second is that men desire a woman who is independent and can work with others. on the other hand, all want a partner who is open to listening and not afraid to ask for help . Two heads is better than one.

Find someone special who values and cares about your opinions . Hold on tight to them. Because they love each other.

12. There are many touching and biting.

It is scientifically proven that touching and nibbling can be a bonding experience. There is the possibility that your loved one is very reserved and won’t be interested in cuddling. However, if your partner constantly seeks to kisses, touch, snuggles, caressing and even biting, this is a sign you are in a warm-hearted, deep relationship.

Love is the desire to snack on someone you love. This can be explained with a brain connection between perceiving cuteness and looking for food.

Please share your personal stories and tell us how you felt first that your partner loved you.

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